Nature or Nuture?

OK, this is a return to more serious and controversial issues. I can’t help it, I find these debates interesting. Before I start this rant properly, I should state that I am a perfectly normal heterosexual male, but that over the years, I have known and been friends with a number of gay people. I don’t care what people’s preferences are; what two consenting people get up to behind their own closed door is nothing to do with me. However, it should stay behind that door. It does not need to become the defining characteristic of life. I once had a work colleague who kept describing gay sex practices to me like fisting, and cottaging, as if these were going to be somehow attractive to me. Quite the reverse. I was naive enough to ask him what the hell he was talking about. I hope my reaction was enough to communicate the message that I really wasn’t interested! He did eventually give up…..thankfully. Behind all that he ...